There's a childrens centre in East Malling I believe that might be a good way to meet people. Soft play in Larkfield (tiny town?). If you are breastfeeding there are quite a few local BF groups, most PCT run and an LLL group that runs every other tuesday. The Maidstone NCT branch is quite active and has a FB group so you might meet people throught them too. The y often run activities like easter egg hunts and teddy bear picnics etc.